Article: Why Gay Men Should Fight Other Gay Men...
Hey Gaybros!
Sorry if that title was a bit confusing. While Fin isn't necessarily against joining any sort of organized gay underground wrestling tournament right out of his modest humble totally nonsexual fantasies... ahem *sideye*... ...I actually only wanted to write a brief blog entry on why your own next gay fiction story should go gay mano y mano... for the fate of the world and all things bromantic!
Now I know the first thing any of you gay bdsm writers or readers out there might think of after hearing that is above line is....
"Fin... no straight men? That's the least sexy idea I've ever heard for gay sex fiction! I hate you now and forever for that terrible idea!"
And you'd be correct!
It takes quite the imagination to make gay men attractive enough to work in sex fiction to ourselves to be even one character... let alone two!
For whatever reason we gays do not find the idea of other gay men nearly as attractive as the idea of straight men. And I think this oddity is well known in our culture. Straight men in our pornography are indeed well known to be very popular!
(Also interesting... there is no notable gay on straight sexual violence in our culture. Seemingly highly sexualizing straight men does not then lead to their endangerment by gay men.)
And while I do not know the actual reason for why straight men are so popular to the gays exactly, as there could be several sources... Fin begins to suspect at times it just may be that the universe has given us gay men little reason as of yet to associate homosexuality and attractive masculinity in even our own minds.
What? The 70s were a long time ago now!
This doesn't have to be the case forever (as I just said above... it might not always have been so at all) but for now it seems to be where our society and culture have sort of stagnated for awhile currently.
I have only been mentioning this because one of the weirdest things about writing art and sex fiction is that they are closer to each other than you may believe. And I think one way to jump your story easy out of its fanfiction and closer to art (if you ever need to make that distinction at all) is to have two gay men in conflict at its heart.
Sex fiction functions by arousing you while you stare at letters.
But no one at all is attracted to the dot of this i.
So then... in order for erotic stories to work... the words and ideas used better be sufficiently evocative to do the trick alone.
This often drives written/imagined sexual fantasies to the extremes as "conceptual stimulus" may need to be higher than average to achieve equal sexual satisfaction than if other higher rewarding senses were being actively used.
Furthermore such written/imagined fantasies can often then have no immediate real world consequence to their experiences as they only exist to the audience fictionally, and again are decoupled from conceptual limiting mechanisms.
So... why are straight men so prevalent in gay pornography?
The answer is as suspected... it is because they are just sort of hotter to think of, naturally.
But when all the online gay artists are writing their fictions, even when its just their sex fictions, that one way or another often don't involve actual gays in anyway... Fin begins to wonder if other cultures create art far more easily than the gays do for themselves.
And in the end it may be to our real detriment.
Ever heard of that bell test lady and her sister or whatever? I forget their names. Dumb bitches.
But related to whatever-their-names are... Fin truly thinks that two gay men interacting in fiction may indeed be even rarer than whatever those two were seemingly complaining about... to someone else... and not each other.
What's even more interesting however... is that it may be our own fault it has ocurred as well!
Again... we as gays are often not interesting to ourselves to think on sexually! It is just not necessarily reflected in our art.
I believe this matters because when your heterosexual peers are making their sexual art, they are far closer to stochastically achieving a culture build event for their own... and mechanisms such exactly this one may have prevented gay organization amongst the humans for ages.
Their art... whatever that may be... is still of them in the end regardless almost at default.
While ours, already compounded by existing as a minority, may not necessarily involve us at all in any way by default.
So anyways... that might a lot to hear about... as I am still only talking about why you should try writing gay-on gay-sex fiction every once in a while as your hobby. haha. >>
But I do think it might be real that we gays find it difficult to write about two gay men interacting socially or sexually!
And I do think that if you can find a way to manage to do either... the art created might start to auto itself to a higher quality tier in the end!
But Fin is also a pragmatist.. and he's literally suggesting you create subquality sexual fantasies... so here are a few high quality mcguffins to get gay-on-gay sexy enough to be the heart of your work!
Now that's the hottest gay man I've ever seen! lol.
It is a bit cheating... but your newly minted faggot is not only now hotness central for your fantasies... they also are legitimately now a homo for your story elsewhere as well!
Now they are sexy and interesting!
However it works... peace, love and understanding... hallmarks of gay ideaology in modern culture... is not one that creates highly sexual beings!
Have your gay neighbors hate each other... and now they are interesting enough to not only write... but to read as well!
Fuck you! You sexy bitch!
There is no reason your gay character needs to be you!
They can be far cooler and exactly like the fantasy straight man right out of a summer blockbuster! Who cares about realism!
You already love action movies... use that interest to make your gay characters cool enough to be worth writing! Have your gay characters do what you've always wanted to see an action hero do... and now you have motivation for gay-on-gay art that you never had before!
Well that's all for now!
Thank you for considering adding epic gay on gay action to your next work!
And thank you for reading!
-Fin