Article: Hidden Cultural Truths

 

Hi Most Esteemed Gay Bros!

For todays's talk I wanted to discuss The Sex Wars Saga yet again... and how the heterosexuals near constant inability to not lie to each other about their own gender/sex (with absolutely no intellectual excuse for it as well)... negatively effects you in the end gay man. 

When I think about meetings of respectable heterosexual men and women... sitting around a table together... discussing in any way sexually charged matters for a business... in Fin's deep down evil dark gay heart... he knows that room is one of the most void of truth in existence. Bar none. 

And so much of our modern lives, even as gay men, is effected by the outcomes of those very such meetings! (And I do believe there are gays in those meetings too!)

It's just that most of them can't even interact with their spouses honestly about sex. 

And they are just going to navigate those waters now successfully in front of their every day work peers... because...?

Everyone in that room is necessarily posturing to each other! No one could ever want to be seen as "soft" on any of these highly charged issues in front of a coworker! Everyone is looking for that next title!

And that's where our corporate policies come from!?

Negative! Alert! Failure of the humans imminent!

Those rooms needs to be filled with the deadest inside doctors, engineers, and scientists the world has ever known. 

Not men whom are not discussing their active online porn use that very day, or would even flinch at it to anyone in the room. 

Not women personally feeling the pain of all billions or so rapes that have ever ocurred since the dawn of way too horny man.  

Not business leaders using the words... "How do we live our values?" instead of "How do we create the future?" ... "Or is that future even realistic?"

Any question on the question should not be in question in fact.

Anyways... this is how Fin believes the world functions at least. 

You can believe him or not... but it is why he thinks it often fails too. 

So in order to try and be useful with the letters I assemble... I thought I could write this blog article on some basic inconvenient truths that many humans in such meetings or elsewhere in life may want to ignore... actively or innocently. 

Inconvenient Truth About Women 1

Society maintains more lies about women than about men, still to this day, even for feminists.

This is my first inconvenient truth because it sort of covers them all. 

Truth is very important to a functioning society.

Humans use generally understood cultural truths to not only understand themselves but also make correct choices about their future. And when these cultural truths are instead intentionally hidden or obfuscated... the result is going to most likely be far worse than if the society had been trusted with the most accurate information about itself from the start. 

Cultural truths are in fact too large to hide safely most of the time. 

So why does society hide many more truths about women than about men? 

Fin believes it is because a lot of the truths are not flattering to who we are as a culture or as a species. 

The truth of our history is that the humans have been living for such a long time in unequal cultural environments for its two major sexes... that it started to reach evolutionary time scales. And became who we are biologically. (Indeed this trend started even before humans themselves evolved actually.)

And while the only condition a thinking individual should really care about in the end... is if the other being in front of them is another thinking individual as well... (Hint: They are!)... accurate cultural information still needs be understood implicitly by all... as detailed the universe is itself actually... or that should at least be the goal. 

There is nothing to fear from inconvenient scientific information about ourselves.  

Whomever you are talking to that says different is wrong. Their case is not special! Your current society of insania lies is the real monster to fear and is a direct result of such belief systems enacted to their logical conclusions. 

Society can usually deal with whatever it is you think needs a lie instead. 

The sentence... "The public can not handle the truth!" ... is just not one you want to be defending too often if you care about being correct. 

So... without further ado...

Inconvenient Truth About Women 2

Women are aroused by nonconsensual sexual fantasies nearly just as often as men. (Just not to the same level, as is usual for women.)

Oh no though! I think I just shot the fucking idealized princess in the head!

Oh well. Bitch will just have to deal with being evolution's castoff ho... just like the rest of us. 

Clearly you can tell why this is an inconvenient truth though. Across the board culturally it is very difficult to discuss women sexually without causing uproars, and certainly not about how their "dark" fantasies conflict with the preferred cultural view of her as a blushing bride.

Women are to be "protected" or "shielded" or "better than reality!"

Instinct has made that view quite clear. 

Even as a gay man... I can feel it! 

And "I feel nothing" Cersei-style... for women. 

The usual argument however to why this truth is verboten to speak is...

"Men will try and justify rape if we tell them women are into it!"

or when paraphrased accurately...

"The American Public can not handle the truth!"  <<

(And interestingly enough, those routinely making this argument actually don't like to find themselves on the side of this sentence.)

But here's how Fin handles scientific data when it starts to not look convenient to a desired narrative... I don't run around screaming it isn't true! 

It sort of looks phony... and in the end you lose credibility to whomever you are trying to convince.

As I have already written about earlier in some never read blog entry of mine... no one can ever want to be raped. It is an oxymoron in itself. 

But also women's fantasies here... much like men's... are preferences most similar to that of watching a pornography film... and not for having that "exact" style of sex one wants for oneself. (That would be just for dominant manly partners instead, in the case of women.)

These truths are NOT too difficult to understand for the public... and do still absolutely refute that "women want to be raped."

And when gay men are still walking around asking "Why am I gay?" [take deep breaths Fin] ... other obvious cultural truth answers might certainly be missing for them as well, such as... "Why do I want that big man to tackle me?"

The answer is clear. 

That's actually what women feel... just to a lesser degree. 

And it is for women themselves to clear up this distinction for society... as no one else really can.

But it should also be understood that this inconvenient truth has persisted because of them as well.

WOMEN DO NOT LIKE TO TALK ABOUT THEIR PRIVATE FANTASIES!

Men, on the other hand, will shout their sexual desires from three streets down... and it is because of that trait men do not have many sexual secrets to society. 

We all know what "straight men" are into! It's actually like a constant cultural joke!

But in the end it is "the men" and their "shameless" view on their own desires that is far healthier for a human to live. 

And so an ancillary inconvenient truth on women here is that... 

Women often have unhealthy, shame-based views on their own sexuality... and then as a result have them for others as well. 

And when a lot of that above sexuality has to do with "Wanting to be tackled by big men"...  it is in fact obvious that such may be an inconvenient truth to any modern human wanting to view themselves as an equal to said "big man"... and where all of this might come from to start.

Denying scientific cultural truths about oneself however... is not the sort of mental agility that should be sought after to resolve this internal conflict.

Better mental tricks for existence not aligning with ideals include: Comedy! and Scientific Realism.

We are all complex masses of assembled proteins hurdling though space on a giant rock. 

The fact that you are aroused by "big men chasing" is so beyond inconsequential when compared to the truths of existence all around us... that it should not be a mental obstacle for any woman... or man... who has such desires.  At least if someone takes the time to explain reality to them this way...

Inconvenient Truth About Women 3

There is a well known trend that the more intelligent a woman is... the more masculine her behaviors and mannerisms. And this is true for heterosexual women as well.

This is rather inconvenient to the half modern/half chivalristic approach to feminism that is common today. 

You like pink and flowers and rainbows!  Okay fine...whatever! 

But cheerleaders are still accurate idiot archetypes... and a correctly functioning society can determine and say that. 

The most intelligent women are not "Valley Girls" on average. 

Just like the most intelligent men are not "Athletic Stars" on average. 

Both inconvenient facts that are still true nonetheless, even if awkward to say publically.

This matters however when society tries to foist the "idiot" characteristics to equal along with the women they are trying to save... because society can not easily separate the two... which are actually distinct. 

Fin often teases women.

Women often think Fin is flirting with them as a result. 

"No bitch! It's because you still want the man to be the one down on one knee... but not at all whistle at you when you walk by!"

Men do not exist to fit whatever bizarre requirement that would be!

You can not intellectually try and have it all innocently!

If you want really want gender equality ... like for real... you better be ready to not be able to save many of your favorite cultural customs, or look like hypocrite as a result.  

I know you love that white wedding dress. I know you always dreamed of that big day. 

But quite honestly you need to acknowledge the exact history and reason for all for all of those very pretty things, lest your "feminism" start to look a little bit convenient. 

You certainly don't want to look like a gibber fool spouting words others only told you... while still wearing the clown clothes that belay you understood any of it. 

White sure is a woman's color...isn't it?

Maintaining an unquestioned adherence to the "value" or "sanctity" of many of our cultural traditions... when the history of reality can explode them rather unelegantly in your face for doing so... seems like a tactical mistake for anyone who believes in the equality of women. 

At least aknowledge the reality that birthed many of the current "female" aesthetics if you want to maintain them. That's actually the least anyone can ask of others. Truth all around. 

Men however are also to blame for this one. 

Since their desired sexual aesthetic is not that of an equal... their preferred cultural behavior for such then often maintains many of these cultural adherences. 

How can a woman be intelligent if she also has to look like a ditz to be attractive?

It's actually to still not look like a fucking ditz! 

Do not defend the ditz look for posterity only! 

We come from a history and a universe that still creates real ditzz that look and act this way. For a reason!

And you can not defend looking identical to them just because men find it hot... alone.

This matters a lot though when it comes to gay men.

This is because of Fin's fervent belief that many straight humans are actually talking to a "Cheerleader" gay man and they can not recognize that fact. 

Remember how masculine behavior is inherently connected to intelligence?

Well interestingly enough... gay men can not escape that one either!

And that is REEEEEAAAAL inconvenient to the gays that believe our fight is about getting society to not judge their effeminate behavior.

Yes... it's fine! 

But no... intelligent gay men are still not backup dancers. 

And yes, this discussion is now over. 

And so anyone forcefully declaring that gay men should be treated as equals while then next pointing to an effiminate rainbow emblazoned stereotype of us.... is really not doing our kind any favors.

You could never get women to be taken seriously that way.

Why do you think gay men will do any better?

-Fin